Showing posts with label Inspire me. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inspire me. Show all posts

Sunday, 18 July 2010

Happy Birthday Madiba

Today is a great man's birthday, one of the few men who truly deserve the title of great. Nelson Madiba Mandela is 92 years old and what an incredible and accomplished life it has been.
Inspite of the adversities he's faced, the suffering and hardship, this incredible man gives us all reason to hope in the good of people. He is universally respected because few of us have ever witnessed such humility and magnanimity from a living being. You get the sense that he is one person who believes 100% in the values that he teaches, he leads by example and inspires everyone regardless of colour or creed.
There are a few things in this world that unite us all, whether you are in a small village in Tanzania, a city in Eastern Europe or an island in the Caribbean, one of those things is the music of  Robert Nesta 'Bob' Marley, another is the universal admiration for Nelson Mandela. Regardless of the language you speak those are two things that will always transcend cultures.

It remains a mystery where Mandela finds his strength and resilience, but to hear him speak and reason, you can't help but think that he must be someone who spends time meditating or praying. How else is he able to be so calm, thoughtul and selfless even when the urge for anger, bitterness and revenge is so strong?
I may be alone in thinking this but I believe human beings are good at heart, in our core but our tendancy is to be selfish, there seems to be a natural urge to put ourselves before others. Perhaps this is part of our animal trait because ofcourse animals protect themselves first, before and sometimes at the expense of others. Mr Mandela however has time and again rejected the inward looking solution for one that helps and protects others including his people. Instead of feeling anger towards those who his people for decades and kept him imprisoned for 27 long years, he forgave them and agreed to share power with them. Rather than cling to power as so many leaders have done, he stepped down for the good of his country. Although Mandela was influenced by Mahatma Ghandi and his non-violent resistance methods, he was never afraid to speak out against those who supported the apartheid regime and call out the many who tried to hinder the peace process. Far from being a 'turn the other cheek' kind of leader, Mandela was never afraid to speak up and has done so on several occasions within and beyond South African politics.
What I find most inspirational about Nelson Mandela is his humility, he reminds us all that we are equally capable of greatness, simply by being good people who live by our values. His legacy is alive and will continue to resonate from one corner of the earth to the othe even after he has gone.

Sunday, 25 April 2010

Love = Responsibility

I'm always telling my boys how television rots the brain. Mostly they just ignore me but every once in a while will actually humour me: "Do you mean like your brain stops working, mum?" "EXACTLY!" I tell them.

It’s the age old dilemma of doing as I say rather than as I do because (I admit) I probably watch more TV than I need to. Though there is some real junk out there on the silver screen these days (Eastenders and Total Wipeout not included) every once in a while the networks come up with a real gem.

Welcome to Lagos on BBC Two is, in my opinion, is one such diamond in the rough (with emphasis on the word rough).

This programme focuses on the lives of people of the slums of Lagos and on the face of it, the inhabitants should be pitied. But on the contrary, they are rich in the ways of family, work ethic and get-up-and-go-go-go!

There are many lessons that one may take away from the BBC three-part series. For example, in the lesson on recycling we see how the discarded waste is trawled through and used in enterprising ways such as for creating landfills and profitable industry. Onto 'Determination 101' and we see how our protagonists work long, hard hours in extreme conditions (we're talking waste grounds and sewers here) in order to support their families. This syllabus in this school of life in Lagos including 'Citizenship', 'Home Economics' and my personal favourite, 'Every-Cloud-has-a-Silver-Lining'.

It's the kind of television I'm happy to watch with children as it raises interesting topics for thinking and discussing and learning. It simply reminds us of the basic values of family and the equation relating love and responsibility.